“tell Me Lies” Star Grace Van Patten Says Jackson White Makes Her Feel “safe to Be Anxious”

Key Highlights

  • Grace Van Patten and Jackson White, stars of the hit Hulu series “Tell Me Lies,” share their behind-the-scenes story.
  • The couple reveals how their real-life partnership mirrors the toxic romance they portray on screen.
  • Van Patten and White discuss their individual dreams and how the show helped them achieve homeownership goals.

Grace Van Patten and Jackson White: A Real-Life Toxic Romance

When Grace Van Patten and Jackson White step onto set for their Teen Vogue cover shoot, they are a picture of playful banter. The actors, who play the notorious couple Lucy Albright and Stephen DeMarco in Hulu’s “Tell Me Lies,” share intimate moments that seem worlds away from the drama on screen.

Homeownership Dreams

“Here’s the deal: We both had dreams of being homeowners. The show gave us an opportunity to do that,” White explains, his voice filled with a mix of nostalgia and satisfaction. “We couldn’t just abandon our individual dreams,” Van Patten adds, her words painting a picture of balance and compromise.

Building a Life Together

Van Patten and White may have grown up on opposite coastsβ€”she in New York, he in Los Angelesβ€”but their early lives were strikingly similar. “We’re the same ageβ€”she’s a Scorpio, he’s a Piscesβ€”and, in an alternate universe, might have crossed paths as undergraduates at USC,” White says, his voice tinged with a sense of fate.

Personal Backgrounds

Van Patten, the eldest of three daughters of Emmy-winning director Tim Van Patten and model Wendy Rossmeyer Van Patten, grew up on set. “I thought that was so fascinating and also scary at a young age,” she recalls. Her path to acting was not always clear, but it was refined over years of study and exposure to various fields.

White, whose mother is Golden Globe-winning actress Katey Sagal, found his passion for acting through theater. “Growing up, we’d be at a restaurant and TMZ would stick a camera in her face,” he says, describing his life with the limelight. “It’s normalized for me.” White’s journey to sobriety also added depth to his character portrayal on screen.

Chemistry and Casting

Their first chemistry read over Zoom was pivotal. “Because if anyone leaned into the asshole of it all, I think it would have been too obvious,” Van Patten says, explaining how their dynamic needed balance. After months of chemistry reads, White flew to New York, where he landed the role. Oppenheimer’s initial reaction to their casting was playful but revealing.

Keeping It Secret

Van Patten and White tried a practical joke by keeping their relationship secret for months, posting suggestive photos and declaring they had “a crush” on each other. Their cover was blown when Sagal inadvertently revealed it on a podcast in early 2024.

“I’m happy I did,” Van Patten says of the kiss, grinning with satisfaction. The actors have never forgotten their soon-to-be boss’s immediate reaction: “What I said on the phone was, ‘Oh my God, you wh*res.’ Obviously, they’re not wh*res, but that was the word that came outβ€”jokingly, obviously.” Despite the initial shock, Oppenheimer saw no issue with their relationship and focused on the show’s success.

Van Patten and White have built a life together that integrates their individual dreams. “When we need solitude and quiet, we go to his,” Van Patten says. “We’re in the little cabin, and it’s so cozy.

And when we want life and energy, we go to mine. It’s a really good balance.” The couple continues to build a life together, one that reflects both their on-screen chemistry and their real-life partnership.